Azjeff
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On May 20 a friend and I left Arizona in a POS 20' Uhaul pulling a car trailer and pulled into Cockeysville Md on May 24 to my daughter's 1 bedroom apartment that they rented to get acclimated to the area as SIL gets ready to go from work from home to work on site at his new job with Microsoft. It took 1 week for the wheels to come off and return to Arizona plans were being made. Without going into details the apartment wasn't as advertised, the area wasn't as advertised and after a lunch meeting of the people SIL's been working with remotely he decided to work remotely from Arizona until they force a decision and decide then, now after the first of the year, what direction to take. Also my daughter has RA and her health deteriorated within days of arriving there.
So next Tuesday daughter is flying back here, Wednesday wife and I are flying to Baltimore and loading and driving a Penske truck and trailer back to Az , and Thursday SIL is flying back and they're staying at our place with the dogs until we get back on Sunday. So, the big fall 3 week eastern trip isn't necessary. The good thing is they didn't immediately put their house for sale because it would have sold in 1 day and they would now be buyers in a sellers market. Don't ask why SIL and I don't drive the truck.
Sometimes we have to hold our thoughts and let our kids make their own decisions and mistakes and then help fix things if asked.
So next Tuesday daughter is flying back here, Wednesday wife and I are flying to Baltimore and loading and driving a Penske truck and trailer back to Az , and Thursday SIL is flying back and they're staying at our place with the dogs until we get back on Sunday. So, the big fall 3 week eastern trip isn't necessary. The good thing is they didn't immediately put their house for sale because it would have sold in 1 day and they would now be buyers in a sellers market. Don't ask why SIL and I don't drive the truck.
Sometimes we have to hold our thoughts and let our kids make their own decisions and mistakes and then help fix things if asked.